Hereby, present to you, the World

Genocide.

Make it a crime?

Enforcement?

UN? 

WIll this lead to a war?

Well, probably.

Will edit this. Promise!

An article that I read, quite good.

http://www.purposefairy.com/3308/15-things-you-should-give-up-in-order-to-be-happy/

Here is a list of 15 things which, if you give up on them, will make your life a lot easier and much, much happier. We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering – and instead of letting them all go, instead of allowing ourselves to be stress free and happy – we cling on to them. Not anymore. Starting today we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. Ready? Here we go:

1. Give up your need to always be right. There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?”Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?

2. Give up your need for control. Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel.

“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu

3. Give up on blame. Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don’t have, for what you feel or don’t feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.

4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk. Oh my. How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mindset? Don’t believe everything that your mind is telling you – especially if it’s negative and self-defeating. You are better than that.

“The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.” Eckhart Tolle

5. Give up your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on, you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place. Spread your wings and fly!

“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle

6. Give up complaining. Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, maaany things – people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it to. It’s not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.

7. Give up the luxury of criticism. Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you. We are all different, yet we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. We all want something, and something is wished by us all.

8. Give up your need to impress others. Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not just to make others like you. It doesn’t work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take of all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.

9. Give up your resistance to change. Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change – don’t resist it.
“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” Joseph Campbell

10. Give up labels. Stop labeling those things, people or events that you don’t understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open. “The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.” Wayne Dyer

11. Give up on your fears. Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist – you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place.
“The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.” Franklin D. Roosevelt

12. Give up your excuses. Send them packing and tell them they’re fired. You no longer need them. A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck, lying to ourselves, using all kind of excuses – excuses that 99.9% of the time are not even real.

13. Give up the past. I know, I know. It’s hard. Especially when the past looks so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. The past you are now longing for – the past that you are now dreaming about – was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.

14. Give up attachment. This is a concept that, for most of us is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too, (it still is) but it’s not something impossible. You get better and better at with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things, (and that doesn’t mean you give up your love for them – because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another,  attachment comes from a place of fear, while love… well, real love is pure, kind, and self less, where there is love there can’t be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot coexist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state beyond words.

15. Give up living your life to other people’s expectations. Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government and the media think is best for them. They ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations, that they lose control over their lives. They forget what makes them happy, what they want, what they need….and eventually they forget about themselves.  You have one life – this one right now – you must live it, own it, and especially don’t let other people’s opinions distract you from your path.

I never thought that a promise I made years ago was finally fulfilled. And, I’m glad my photographer friend still willing to find me to be his model. I think my overall look has changed bit by bit. Getting the older looking.

But that’s not the case. 

I really thought I’m done with this showbiz thing, but my friend gave me another opportunity. I figured I still like doing this work. I wonder why I feel like this out of sudden. 

Ah well, doesn’t matter. Mission completed. Exam is coming. Another mission! 

Yu Zai: I’ve been to many weddings and heard many wedding vows. In the past, I would only put my attention to the bride and the groom to see if they stammer while saying their vows, or if they’re so nervous that they say their own names wrongly. I would rarely put my attention to the wedding vows itself. But today has probably got to be the first time I’ve seriously listened to the vows. I’ve never thought that the meaning of ‘sticking together through thick and thin’ would be like this.

Everyone hopes that they can spend their days with their loved ones happily. But there wouldn’t be many people who would seriously think if they are ready to share all their problems with each other. I really think that I’m very fortunate because I know that you’re ready.

(via mingying)

tumbletvb:

This part was so heartbreaking :[

True to that. it was very heartbreaking. One of the most saddest scenes.

rachelgotbounce:

I, Cheung Yat Kin, will take you, Fan ZiYu, as my lawfully wedded wife. No matter rich or poor, happy or sad, healthy or sick, I am willing to forever love you, protect you, as long as I live.

Why are you still hesitating? Are you scared I will regret? Are you scared this is only the heat of the moment? Are you scared I have to take care of you forever? 

Marriage vows —if it’s read to be read because of convention, then it is meaningless. We must act on it, and commit to it. When young, we’re pretty and healthy, of course we love. But as the years go by, we will inevitably grow old, develop pain and sickness, and even watch each other die slowly of age. Is it then that we do not love? If in the future, we won’t forsake on each other, thus it should be the same now. If either is sick, and we do not care, then it’s not true love. No one knows how long a person will live. Even we, doctors, cannot guarantee longevity to our own life. This is why marriage vows never include the promise of loving ‘til our hair turns grey. Yet we do have to promise, regardless healthy or sick, we have be together with each other, do you understand?

Fan ZiYu, I ask you once more, no matter healthy or sick, are you willing to be with me, remain with me, for the rest of my life?

(Source: tvbftw)